One thing I found out today:
An accidental change on facebook can scare a lot of people.
I was editing my profile this morning and didn't realize that doing so made all my other information default.
My friends were greeted with "Valerie has broken her relationship with Dennis" on their home pages.
I'm glad to know so many people were looking out for us that they'd call, comment or send a message to me. It is good to know that there would be immediate accountability with our friends if we were to go off the deep end in our marriage.
So, no harm done- Dennis and I are loving and being loved, secure in our commitment to each other and to God, surrounded by friends and family who care enough to demand an explanation if something were to go wrong!